Life Coach and Success Coach,  R. Robin Cote',  offers  Professional Life Coaching,  
Personal Life Coaching, Stress Reduction Techniques and Success Coaching
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u    What is Life coaching?

u    Throughout  the website, you refer to your coaching process using the plural pronoun, "we."    Who is 'we?"  Do you have a coaching staff or a coaching team?   

u    There are several good coaches around.   Why should I come to you?

u    I can change on my own.   I've even got your book to guide me, so what do I need you for?

u    What stands between most people and success?   How do you deal with these problems?

u    Sex and relationships are big issues.   Do you deal with these issues?

u    I'm sick of people telling me I'm wrong.   Will you try to fix me?

u    What will your coaching sessions do for me?

u    I've heard dozens of  conflicting religion-based stories.   How can they all be right?

u    Because your coaching process touches some core spiritual principles, I'm compelled to ask:   Will coaching sessions weaken my religious faith?

u    Am I Ready for Success

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Q.   What is Life Coaching?

We have an entire page devoted to answering that question. Click here°  to find out why and how having a personal coach can be of great value to you.

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Q.    You refer to your coaching process using the plural 
        pronoun "we."   Who is "we?"   Do you have a coaching
       staff or a coaching team?

The answer is both yes and no  -- a physical team - no,  a non-physical team, definitely yes!   When you call, you will be talking to R. Robin Cote'.   And I do have a very powerful team of advisors who work with me, but they are in the non-physical realms of reality.  There is just no way that I could do what I do without their assistance.   That's why I refer to this process as "we."  

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Q.   There are Several Good Coaches around.   
        Why should I come to you?

Not only are there some good coaches around, there are some excellent, high-profile, very successful coaches around.   Check these two websites and you'll see what I mean:   http://www.philiphumbert.com°     and   http://www.optimalthinking.com/index.htm.°  

If you are asking, "Is what I could get from others any better or worse than what I can get from the Life Coach 4 VIP  coaching?"   The answer depends upon your perspective on life and upon what you are looking for.   To say someone is better or worse than someone else is often a highly subjective, personal  judgment.   As coaches, each of us simply offers guidance from our own unique perspectives.   

Here's our suggestion:  Examine our web page titled, How The Life Coach 4 VIP  technique  Coaching is Different from Other Coaching Services.°   Check out several different coaching services, and then choose the one that feels right to you.

In the particular niche of the coaching market that we have chosen to serve, we feel we are among the best, but we are definitely not for everyone.    We are sufficiently confident in the quality of the services we offer, that if you are dissatisfied with  the Life Coach 4 VIP  Coaching, the money you've given to us will be returned to you.

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Q.   I can change on my own.   I've even got 
      
  your book to guide me.   What do I need you for
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Can you make changes on your own?   Of course you can!   So can almost everyone else who is not mentally or physically handicapped.  The question is not, can you...?  It's "Will you..."  It's not about ability.  

It's about commitment!   It's about persistence!   It's about integrity with your self!   And then it's about recommitment, recommitment, and recommitment -- as many times as it takes and for as long as it takes.   This is one of the areas where having a coach is essential.    A coaches job is to keep you on track, especially when situations become emotionally challenging for you.

If you can re-invent yourself without a coach's assistance, please do so.   Unfortunately,  it's extremely difficult for most people to make significant changes in their lives on their own while living in their old environment and associating with the people who helped them focus on creating what they no longer want.   

If you think you can do this on your own, we suggest four steps:  first,  find a partner to study with and to provide mutual support; second, find new friends who are in harmony with your new goals; third,  stop viewing and listening to stories about experiences you don't want to have in your life;  and fourth, let us show what we have to offer by calling us for a free introductory session: 818/727-0727.

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Q.   What stands between most people and success ?

We have a separate page devoted to answering that question.   Please see the page titled, Barriers to Success.   

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Q.   Sex and relationships are big issues.   
       Do you deal with those issues
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Most definitely!   Because humans are by nature, social creatures, relationships are a major area where coaching can make a significant difference in your life.   All Robin's coaching clients receive a free copy of his latest book on relationships called "The Yoni Dance."   

"The Yoni Dance" also deals with an issue that, in most circles, is a taboo topic for discussion -- and that topic is the relationship between sex and spiritual consciousness.

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Q.   I'm sick of people telling me I'm wrong
        Will you try to fix me?

Definitely not!  There is nothing wrong with you, and there's nothing about you that needs fixing -- but, it's not that you are perfect either.   Life Coach 4 VIP  coaching is not about fixing, fighting, of judging anything.   It's about learning the laws of intentional creation and focusing on who you choose to be.   It's about tapping into your undeveloped potential.  

If someone has a problem with who you are or with what you do, (as long as you are not harming someone else)  that's their problem.   Leave it to them.

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Q.   What will your coaching sessions do for me?

Everything and nothing.   Coaching is like any other tool; it only works if you use it.   If you think I or any other coach is going to do anything for you, you're in for a big disappointment.   Life coaching is, in many ways, similar to any other type of coaching.   For example, a basketball coach doesn't play the game for you, he (or she) shares his/her mastery with you.   A Life coach guides you, offers suggestions, and keeps you on track, etc., but you still have to play the game yourself.   Please see the page titled: What is Life Coaching° to find out why and how having a personal coach can be of great value to you.

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Q.   I've heard so many conflicting religion-based stories.   
     
  How can they all be right?

They Can't!   Look at this question from the perspective that every one of us has a vision of the truth, but none of us has the complete truth.  We  get into trouble when we claim our piece of the truth is the complete and only truth.

We become like the three blind men in the Sufi story about examining an elephant.  One blind man, while touching the elephant's side, declared that an elephant was like a wall.  The second touching its leg, declared an elephant was like a tree, and the third blind man, while holding on to it's tail declared an elephant was like a snake.

All three were correct, and, at the same time, all three had very distorted perspectives of an elephant.  The significance here is not in what each blind man  said about the elephant. it's in what they didn't say.   Commonly, human distortions  stems from experiencing a small portion of the truth and then proclaiming that that very small and limited portion of the truth is the whole truth.

If you continued this elephant analogy, you could probably come up with several dozen more equally limiting ways to describe an elephant.  When you substitute God for elephants in this analogy, the possibilities become infinite.

This leads us to an obvious conclusion:  "Any god that fits  inside of only one religion has to be an incomplete god."    As Shakespeare put it:  "There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your
philosophy."
    

Readers are invited to the page titled: Spiritual Awareness.°  

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Q.   Because your coaching process touches some core
        spiritual principles, I'm compelled to ask:  Will

        coaching sessions may weaken my religious faith?

Absolutely not!   Regardless of what religion you presently practice, if you are secure in your belief that:  
      1) there is a divine creator, 
      2) that we are each a vital part of that creation and 
      3) that we live beyond the demise of our physical bodies, 
then your faith will be strengthened by allowing your mind to participate in your religious faith.

When head and heart are combined, your religious faith becomes a co-created adventure of love, trust, truth, and wisdom all neatly combined into the physical form you see when you look into a mirror.   That's an unshakable combination.   

Social Structures:   The outward structure and expression of you faith may change.   With expanded awareness, one's connection to source becomes internal and as Martin Luther declared in 1517:  "You can connect directly to God.  Need for and dependency upon the church is unnecessary."  You may still participate in your present church services but you'll do so from a space of honor, respect, humility, and gratitude and not from servitude or victim consciousness.

While lies and illusions fall apart under close examination, the truth is strengthened by being questioned and challenged to prove itself.    Your inner knowing and your connection to the timeless, universal truths will be strengthened.  

Religion as it is currently structured, is an intermittent event experienced in the external world.   In  contrast, spirituality  is a personal, internal;moment- by-moment, continuous, 24-hours-a-day, seven-days-a-week  experience.   

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Coaching Clients       Coaching Clients        Are You Ready        ...

Q.    Are You Ready to Reach More of  Your  Potential?

If the answer is YES, then the next logical question is:

OK, Now What?    There are literally dozens of ways we can assist you.   If you are considering becoming one of our coaching clients,  we offer a free introductory consultation. 

Free Session:  We have found that the best way for you to get a clear sense of what we have to offer is for you to experience a coaching session.   Then, by personal experience, you'll know what we can do for you and what you can expect to gain from coaching.   The introductory consultation is a free, personal, private, one-on-one session.

Your Choice:  You tell us about your specific goals, needs, and desires, and then, based on your own heart and on our advice, you can decide what is the next best step for you.

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      Join us in an adventure into consciousness, 
              And we'll show you life from a perspective 
                         we guarantee you've never seen before.

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R. Robin Cote'

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Put tested and proven 
principles and techniques to work in your life.

Consultations are available by phone 
from anywhere in the world.
 

818/727-0727

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