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A Reasonables' New-Vision Project

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  The New Paradigm 

A new model -  
A new standard -  
A new foundation for your life 
Based on evidence and not on unsupported beliefs about reality

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Setting the Context  for the New Paradigm

The New Paradigm

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l   The new Paradigm, if you choose to be part of it, will enhance the joy and freedom in your personal life.   It will also make your company more profitable, and show you a new, more loving, and more rewarding way to you relate to other humans and to our environment.  

l   In order to make permanent long-term shifts in our personal lives, we all need to reach to the core, the first cause, the source of our present, unwanted experiences.   We are talking about beliefs and their resultant behavior patterns.  It's like re-tooling a machine to produce a different product.   We'll coach you on how to do that.

l   As a global society, our old ways of relating to ourselves, to each other and to our natural environment are producing drastically negative results.   What we, collectively, have done to the Earth is forcing us to adapt to this new environment.   

l   When the major and now inevitable environmental changes begin manifesting in big and obvious ways, chaos will come with them.   At that time, highly skilled people like you are going to be needed to pick up the pieces and rebuild our collective life styles in a manor that is in harmony with what's left of our natural environment. 

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Setting the Context for the New Paradigm:

Suspend Judgment:   

If you choose to become one of our coaching clients, some of what you'll be asked to do  (and/or experiment with)  may seem basic and unnecessary.   Some of it may seem to be irrelevant, and still other things may appear to be so "far out" that they seem unreal.   Participating in our coaching program will require you to suspend judgment until you have personal experiences upon which to make sound judgments in these areas.   

Your old ways are no longer working.   

If they were, you wouldn't be here reading this message.   Doing more of  the same or doing  the same thing harder is not going to get you to your goal, either.

Going to Source:   

In order to make permanent, long-term shifts in your life, you'll need to reach to the core, the first cause, the source of your present unwanted experiences.   We are talking about your beliefs and their resultant behavior patterns.  It's like re-tooling a machine to produce a different product.   We'll coach you on how to do that.

The  changes you're being invited to experience may, at first,  seem radical, even  unbelievable.  They are intended and designed to debunk long-held illusions about who and what human beings are, about what the universe is and how it functions.   These changes will be as profound as those that came with the discovery that the Earth was round or with Louis  Pasteur's discovery that microorganisms cause diseases.    Again I say, "Suspend judgment until you have personal experiences upon which to make sound  judgments."  

Why Bother?   What's In It for Me?  

The new Paradigm, if you choose to be part of it, will enhance the joy and freedom in your personal life.   It will also make your company more profitable, and show you a new, more loving, and more rewarding way  to you relate to other humans and to our environment.  

Reality  vs.  Beliefs About Reality:  

As little children, each one of us was programmed with a set of beliefs.   Regardless of who your parents are/were, regardless of the physical location of your early childhood, and regardless of  your social, political, economic, religious, and personal background, you have some beliefs that simply do not match what the latest evidence tells us is real.   To succeed at your goal, you will be required to examine your beliefs and distinguish between your beliefs about reality from what the evidence tells us is most probably actual  reality.

Are you able to accept my coaching?   

Maybe!  Maybe not.  We find that  many people are too lazy, too scared, or too stuck in denial to see the truth.   If you accept this training and if we accept you as a client, you'll find this task to be harder than military Special Forces training, and at the same time, we'll not ask you to do anything that is in any way physically challenging.    You need to understand that this training is completely different from anything you've ever undertaken before.   Once you start, your life will never be as it was.   There's no going back to things as they were.   

I know you've been very successful in some  areas of your life.   That's one of the reasons why you are here.   Actually, it's a prerequisite for being accepted as a coaching client.   Before you accept our training program, you'll want to read the page titled:  What to Expect as a Coaching Client.°   

Knowledge , Choice, and Responsibility:   

You also need to  clearly understand that knowledge brings with it choices and responsibility.   Once you know you have a choice you can no longer play victim.

You are and will continue to be 
   completely in charge of your life.   

You're at choice to follow instructions or not.    You can follow instructions or quit the program.    With our coaching program, just like with anything else in life, not following directions and/or ignoring the rules and/or quitting will keep you from getting what you want.   

Yes, you are in charge!  You are in charge of your own life.   You can choose to give that control over to accident, happenstance,  or default.   You can let some other human(s) run your life.   You can let your childhood beliefs run your life.   But if you do, you need to understand that  playing victim, coping out, quitting, and giving up are all choices.  

Why are we offering this training?   

Because the status quo is dying.   You ask, "That's always been true, so what's the big deal?"   The answer is simple.  Just look around you.   Humans, collectively, have so radically destroyed Sacred Mother Earth's delicate ecological balance that major, and I mean major, changes are underway.   

I'll give you just one obvious example.   We can no longer deny that global warming is presently melting the glacial, and mountain snow caps all over the planet.   These ice caps provide water to much of the Earth's surface during the summer months.   Without these dry season water sources,  many of our now fertile areas will become deserts, and the life forms dependent upon these waters will die, including millions of humans.   We'll go into this in more detail later.   For now and for a clearer perspective on Earth changes, you're invited to watch the National Geographic TV series,  "Strange Days on Planet Earth."    (These programs are regularly being broadcast on PBS.)   

Here's the Door:   

If you still think our concern for our environment is just hype from hippie tree-huggers, I suggest you stop reading and go elsewhere.   At this time, we cannot help you.   We offer you one comment to remember:   In a closed mind, the truth is no match for a good fantasy.   In an open mind, even the grandest fantasy is no match for the truth.    Goodbye.°    

And for those of you still with us, when the major changes occur, highly skilled people like you are going to be needed to pick up the pieces and rebuild our collective life styles  in a manner that is in harmony with what's left of our natural environment.   Thank you!

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The New Paradigm:  
(model, standard, pattern, Archetype)

The new paradigm is about creating:    

Much of what is commonly accepted as real has been handed down to us, unchanged,  from prior generations.   When we closely examine our beliefs, we find that many of them do not match what the presently available evidence tells us about life, about the universe, about who and what we are.   We'll examine some of the more common and the more damaging assumptions, and then we'll use our new base of information as the foundation upon which to build our personal lives anew.   Remember now, we are not fixing, correcting or changing you, or me or anything else.   The new paradigm is about creating, and it starts with us.

Of course, it starts with us!   

The goal is, after all about us; about "What's in it for me?    But we'll see ourselves and our position in first place in a new light.  We'll go into details about that later.  For now, I'll just give you a hint about what that will look like:  "Everybody Is in First Place."

Below are some of the new perspectives.  

Many of them you already know about because they are actually very old.    They've simply been ignored by those controlling society.   Again, I'll give you a hint.   This one can be found in the ancient Christian text called the Bible:   "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God."  Take a moment to reflect on that statement.   If it's true, what does it mean to you?

Some of the ideas presented here will be new, so new that they will seem to be absolutely impossible.    Of course they're impossible, just like the Earth is round, or sending  a man to the moon, or a human being running a mile in four minutes, or microorganisms causing diseases.   We'll also examine the sources of change in more detail when we talk about "the lunatic fringe."   

OK, ready or not, here they are.

u   Subatomic physics tells us that there is no such thing as physical matter.   Everything is made up of energy.

u   The overwhelming evidence points directly to the conclusion that we are each a non-physical, eternal divine being, a part of that source of everything we commonly call God.

u   That source of everything we commonly call God is unknown and unknowable.   Everything we think we know about God is merely a an unprovable belief.   That's not to discount or ignore our connections to Source, but rather to recreate them.   As part of our program, we'll give you a clear distinction between religion and spirituality.

u   Everything is one.   The perceived separation between you and nature is an illusion ---   between you and your fellow humans is an illusion  ---  between you and God is an illusion.   Everything is a part of a single, unified whole.

u   The world we see out there that we think of as static and immutable and to which we have thought of ourselves as powerless victims is an illusion.   Reality and the external world are products of our internal creations, individually and collectively.

u   Only five percent of the known universe is observable with present technology.   Ninety-five percent is made up of what is referred to as "dark energy" and "dark matter."   (Considering the vastness and the complexity of the five percent we can perceive, what do you suppose is in that other ninety five percent?)

u   The observer affects the observed because the observer is part of that which is being observed.   This concept is as old as the teachings  of  the ancient philosopher, Hermes Trismegistus  and as new and scientific as the Heisenberg principle  --"The act of observing alters the reality being observed."

u   We each create our personal  reality by our thoughts, beliefs, attitudes, words, actions, and emotions.  The Universal Laws of Thought, Allowing, and Intentional Creation are very real.  

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You don't have to believe any  of this to participate with us.   Simply suspend judgment until you've examined the evidence.

So where does all that leave us?   

Well, to start with, "There are no victims at the inn of success."    Either collectively or individually, we've created everything we are presently experiencing, including our physical bodies.   

Another tool is to accept all and everything and everyone exactly as is.  Why?  Because we are not changing, fixing or fighting anything.   We are creating.   Where we each find ourselves, at the moment,  is merely our starting point.   

Know the rules of the game you're playing:  

Physical Earthly actions have predictable results.   The rules, like the law of gravity, apply equally to everyone at all times.  Success in life requires knowing and intentionally applying the rules.   

Our internal, non-physical creation process also has predictable rules.   Here too, success in life requires knowing and intentionally applying the rules.

Another tool we'll use is to examine what we are presently doing and imagine what the result will be if we continue our present behavior patterns.

The Wagon Train Analogy:  

Let's look at our lives here on Space Ship Earth using a wagon train analogy.   With one major exception, the following statements apply to both.   

We are all travelers.   We all going to the same destination.   We are each an individualized part of the whole.   Much in our future is unknown and unknowable.   There are many blessings and many dangers ahead of us.   Along the journey, all of us will survive together or we will die together.   

On  the other hand, everything we need is available.   Our job is to find it or create it, and, at the same time,  be certain that all actions are for the long-term highest good of everyone and everything.    Our  actions toward reaching our goals, must also be infinitely sustainable, or we must choose a different path.   

The major difference is that the wagon train journey is short term and soon ends.   Life on Earth is a long-term journey, and the overwhelming circumstantial  evidence supports the belief that we each come back here numerous times.   

Now with this foundation in mind, you are again at choice.   

u   Join us in an adventure into consciousness.   When you do, we'll show you life from a perspective  we guarantee you've never seen before.  Contact Us° 

u   Go back to business as usual.   Goodbye.°   

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