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   Anthill Analogy`   and   The Ultimate Sacrifice`     Anthill Analogy ˛ 

   The Beginner's Mind`      The Beginner's Mind ˛

   Belief Boxes`                       Belief Box ˛   ------     An invisible prison

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   Cash Cow`                                   Cash Cow ˛ 

   Degrees of Separation`

   Ego-Atheist`  

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   Futile Gesturing`

   Hidden Agenda`    (Hidden Intention)

   Iceberg Principle`

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   Kaizen`

   Perspective - Point of View`

   Related Web Pages`

   Spin Doctor`                        Spin Doctor ˛ 

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One-life-ism

One-life-ism is the religious belief that humans life only one life on Earth and then go to heaven, hell, or some other undefined place after death.   This is the basic belief of Christianity.   It's also part of the Islamic belief system.   One could also say atheists believe in one-life-ism.   For a clear distinction between one-life-ism, reincarnation, and atheism, see the page titled: The Three Religious Assumptions in The Book of Timeless Truths and Wisdom®.

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Degrees of Separation --  Reading Between the Lines:

Has a New Home on page  trp72 --- The Basics About Reality°

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Ego-Atheist.

A detailed description of an ego-atheists (as distinct from the humanitarian atheists)°  can be found at:   http://www.pro-truth.net/70b-recognizing-evil.html#EgoAtheist.°   

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Futile Gesturing

Futile gesturing is taking an action that one knows will not produce the desires result, but taking that action anyway.   Although one knows that the action is a waste of time and energy, that knowing may be hidden in denial of what the evidence says about the topic.   Futile gesturing is an act done in desperation,  out of illusion, or it may be a deceptive way of accomplishing a hidden agenda.    Futile gesturing is also used as a way of justifying failure.   

Treating symptoms and ignoring the problem is the most common form of futile gesturing.    It's common for politicians to propose solutions that won't get society where they claim they want it to be.   

Insanity:  The U.S. anti-drug war and the anti-terrorist war are both extremely costly and extremely ineffective activities, neither of which is going to solve the problem they claim to be addressing.   Both are futile gesturing.   Both are insane.   Einstein gave us the classic definition of insanity,  "Taking the same action over and over again [and] expecting a different result."   

Hidden Agenda:   Another aspect to consider is that what appears to The Reasonables as a act of futile gesturing may be  ( for the person or group taking that action or actions)  an intention activity designed to fulfill a hidden agenda.    The ultra-conservative Christian anti-abortion war is the perfect example of a hidden agenda.   The anti-abortion war also fits the definitions of both insanity and futile gesturing.   For a more detailed analysis of this example, see the page titled: Hidden Agenda.°   on out pro-truth website.

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Hidden Agenda

To have a hidden agenda is to conceal one's true intentions behind a facade of something else.   It's hypocrisy in actions.   It's saying one thing and quietly or even secretly doing something else.   It's another way of lying by withholding the truth.°   Although such behavior is legal, it's morally and ethically  bankrupt. 

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Here's an Example of a Hidden Agenda

Editors note:  If you become emotionally upset at the example below we invite you to take the Truth Challenge.°   Show us exactly and specifically where any statement below is wrong or inaccurate.  

The forced motherhood leaders offer us an excellent example of a hidden agenda.   They claim that their intention is to save the lives of innocent babies.   If that really is their true intention, then we wonder  why  they ignore the 40,000 already-born children who starve to death every day°  or die of curable diseases?    We wonder why are they badger people and demand egg rights while allowing 40,000 innocent children to die every day?  WHY?  Because they have a hidden agenda and that agenda is not about saving babies.   

The  true intention of the ultra-conservative Christian hierarchy is political domination. °  Their true intention is to create a Christian Theocracy in America ° with themselves in charge.

Then why are they so vehemently promoting forced motherhood?   
M  O  N  E  Y !   Because pretending to be concerned about saving babies  is a highly effective advertising  tool.    The abortion controversy is the ultimate mind bending tool because it combines the worlds three most powerful emotional triggers --  sex, motherhood, and babies.     It's actually a 
multi-billion dollar cash cow.°  --  a tool for raising billions of dollars.   The abortion controversy also generates  multi-millions of dollars worth of free publicity that they use to sway public opinion.    The abortion controversy is a ticket to political power.

Without the abortion controversy,  they would have to find another way to stroke their egos and appease their guilt.   Without the abortion controversy,  they would each be just one more minister among the thousands presently struggling to find enough  money to support their churches.

Why Not simply be honest?   Because the entire forced motherhood campaign is base on unprovable religious beliefs. °    Because it denies the Bible.°   Because it's based on a religious fairytale that comes to us from antiquity, from men who believed the Earth was flat. °    Because the forced motherhood story cannot stand the light of open honest questioning. ° 

Not Everyone:   Please be clear that we are not painting all Christians with the same brush.  Some Christian groups are doing phenomenally constructive and productive work in this area.   Our focus in on the highly vocal, ultra-conservative, Christian hierarchy who are willing to ignore the evidence, deny the Bible, subvert the Constitution, be the worlds most blatant hypocrites, and  force unwilling women to bear unwanted children in an already overcrowded world.  

True intention:   You can easily see someone's true intentions in three major ways:   1) by noting the company they keep, 2)  by watching what activities they engages in and 3)  by being aware of what actually happens.   In this example:  The intention of the forced motherhood leaders is to ignore starving babies.   Why do I say that?  Because  the evidence tells us that that's exactly what they're doing.     

How can any group with millions of dollars to spend claim to be saving babies and at the same time ignore the 40,000 already born children who starve to death ° each and every day or die from curable diseases?   Not only that, by way of their anti-abortion gag rule, °  by their other activities, °  and by what they condone and support, °  they force many mothers with starving children to produce still more unwanted babies.

Their true intention, their real agenda, revolves around  ego, money, power, fame, and political control.   They don't really care about saving innocent lives because their true intention is to  hijack (to take over and dominate) the Republican party.   While claiming to be saving babies, they are spending millions of baby-saving dollars dollars promoting ultra-conservative Republican candidates for political office.   Why?  Because those candidates support their political intention.  They are anti-abortion, anti-sex, anti-gay rights, anti-embryonic-stem-cell research, and  anti-almost anything pleasurable.   The candidates they support are part of the team working to  create a Christian theocracy in America.

Exposing their hidden agenda reveals a cesspool  of Hypocrisy. °     The forced motherhood promoters may be pro-embryo, but they certainly are NOT pro-life.

Links to closely related pages:  

The No-Choice Leaders and Hypocrisy ° 

God's Conception Magic Act  ° 

Have you ever been wrong? ° 

What is Life? ° 

Life Begins When? ° 

God's Cosmic Trash Bin ° 

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  The Iceberg Principle:

An iceberg is only twenty percent above water and the underwater part is invisible to the casual observer.    When you find that a so-called public servant (someone in a position of power and/or authority)  has been taping the public treasury, running scams, playing dirty tricks or pulling off other shenanigans,  you can bet that what you find out about is only a small fraction of what he's been doing.   

To see this principle in an action context, readers are directed to the page titled:  Sex, Sin, and Saint Anti-sexual  Augustine.°   

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Kaizen  --  How to Eat an Elephant

All actions in physical space happen in time and in a sequential fashion.   Everything is a process.***   By becoming aware of how this sequential process works, you can consciously and intentionally align your personal behavior with the way the physical universe functions to improve your life.   This is what Kaizen is all about.

Kaizen is a continuing series of small, positive changes made with the intention of improving the quality, joy, and comfort in any area of one’s life.   Kaizen is a series of small steps; as distinct from constant change and as distinct from innovation, which is making a large, major change in the shortest possible time.   

***   Even when things appear to happen instantly, it's still a sequential process.   Some events occur so fast,  that 
without technical aids such as high speed cameras,  we 
cannot perceive the progression as it occurs.   We see 
only the results.

We've  been programmed to believe the change comes in big and major pieces.  This is called "Innovation."   The only problem with innovation is that it's too big to cope with,  it  usually doesn't work,  and it's scary as hell.    Kaizen offers a way around this and several other problems.

The human psyche is designed to resist change.   Most of us like routine; we like the normal, the dependable, that which is in harmony with us.   So when facing major changes we baulk, we resist, and all to often, simply refuse to change.   The result of refusing to adjust or or adapt to the new context is often uncomfortable, painful, and could even produce disaster.   Kaizen offers a way around this problem, too.   

Fear of failure is still another major factor in our inability to make major changes.   In many social traditions, particularly, the Christian tradition there is a strong psychological link between being wrong and being punished.  Failure is associated with pain.   The way around this is again found in the Kaizen approach.   Make steps so small that success is relatively easy.   

Instead of major changes, use the mountain-climbers motto:   "Take one step at a time."   Or answer the ancient Sufi masters question:  "How do you eat an elephant?"   We don’t actually eat elephants, but symbolically speaking the answer is “One bite at a time.”   Some additional examples:   

   In whatever goals you're striving to reach, think in terms that you're familiar and comfortable with.    Now stretch one small step beyond what is easy for you to do.    Avoid a big jump.   Just take a small step.   Tomorrow, perhaps you'll  be ready for two steps.

   You probably won't be able to lose thirty pounds, but you could lose one or two pounds.   Then after that, you could probably lose another pound or two.   

   You could postpone the next cigarette or the next drink or the second helping of food for ten minutes.   And after ten minutes, you might consider postponing them another  five minutes.    Later, you could begin by postponing them for fifteen minutes, and so on.   

   Think of a small way you could improve the efficiency of your work or your tasks at home.   

   You'll probably resist cleaning your whole house, but  you could easily clean one shelf in the pantry.   Then later, or  tomorrow or the day after, you might tackle a second shelf.  

   How could you be just a bit nicer to your family, friends, co-workers, and the people you encounter in the grocery market or a restaurant? 

   And the words you just read. . .   They were typed one letter at a time.

It’s much easier, psychologically, emotionally and physically, to make a series of a thousand small steps than it is to make one huge jump.   The  N.V.P. Team  utilizes this one-bite-at-a-time approach to re-creating our lives.   

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Recommended reading no this topic:    
One Small Step Can Change Your Life:  The Kaizen Way  
    A book by Robert Maurer,  Workman Publishing, New York.

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Recommended additional reading:    
What is a Context?
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     Describes what a context is, why they are important, 
     and how to intentionally create
a context that can change your life.

Creating Community° 

    How to  Use the Concept Called Tithing 
    to Enhance Your Own Life and Your Children's Lives.

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Perspective -  Point of View

Every person on the planet views human life for his/ her own, unique perspective.    For example,  the colonial patriots, whom Americans now call our "Founding Fathers,"  were called traitors in Britain during the American revolutionary war.   And today, a person who, in America,  is called a  "terrorists,"  is thought of as a "freedom fighter"  in Iran.

Ethnocentrism:   
We are each born into a culturally conditioned belief system or ready made values which we tend to adopt and unquestioningly accept.  This human behavior pattern,  known as ethnocentrism,  results in humanity holding a plethora of conflicting and often mutually exclusive values.  Some of these values must, therefore, be based upon personal prejudices and illusions rather than on truths and understandings. 

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Modus Operandi:

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Most of us function primarily  in one of two modes.   We may, at times, shift to the opposite pole, but for the most part, we either work together in unity and harmony or against each other in duality and conflict.    

Duality and Conflict:  In the duality mode, it's us against them.   Football is a good example of this.  It's primarily about fighting, pushing, shoving, knocking the other side down, claiming territory, and scoring points.   If an opponent is injured, that's good, because then he's out of the game, and this increases the other side's chance of winning.  It's a zero sum game.   In order for one side to win, the other side must lose.   

Unity and Harmony:  In the unity mode it's us with them.   An orchestra is a good example of this.   Everyone is working in complete harmony toward a common goal.   It's about cooperation, harmony, synchronized rhythm, and mutual support.   Everybody adds to the product produced.   The higher and stronger the quality of our input, the grander the overall result.   The product is beautiful music, a blessing for all to hear.   The same product can be given to ten people or ten million, and it is not diminished in the slightest by sharing.  It's an infinity sum game.  The more you share the bigger the product.   Everybody wins.

Your Job:  Obviously, if you choose to accept the N.V.P. Team's  invitation, we ask you to play in the unity mode where everybody wins.   That's not to discount yourself.   You're still number one.   The secret is that everybody else is also a number one.   (And how many number one's are there?   As many as work together in harmony toward the common goal.)   

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An Orchestra Analogy?   Imagine for a moment sitting in the audience listening to an Earthly physical orchestra, or better yet, imagine yourself as part of the orchestra.  While the music fills your being, notice that everyone in that orchestra is an equally important part of the experience.   Everybody has the same goal.   Everybody is both giving and receiving in every moment.   Everybody in in harmony with everyone else's part of the music.   Everyone there is there because they chose to be there.

Absent is the sense of damaging a fellow players instrument, or knocking him or her down, or stealing his/her wallet, or breaking something simply to break it.   There's no corner cutting, no cheating, no making one's part bigger or someone else's part smaller.   The only competition is to play one's instrument better than was done in yesterday performance.   

The first step in shifting into the world of unity and harmony mode, is to understand that:

Life is not what the public has  
been led to believe it is by those who claim to know!
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Enron-Style Accounting       ...

Enron-Style Accounting:         You've probably heard the line,  "There are lies.  There are damned lies, and then, there are statistics."   The truth can be distorted in oh so many ways.   Watch out for accounting fraud.   

An example:  The Federal government places the national debt at nearly seven trillion dollars.  But what is not included in that figure is the approximately forty trillion dollars that was paid to Social Security Administration.  This money was supposed to be held in trust and invested, the profits from which were to go back to the people.  Instead the government spent the money.   Not only do they not have any profits, they no longer have the original capital.   Thus the national debt is at least forty-seven trillion dollars.  

How will they deal with this?   You've already heard them say the Social Security Administration is bankrupt.   They will  simply make that declaration official, and over two-hundred and sixty million people will be robed of their retirement funds.   And, after the announcement, the crooks will simply get into their driver down  chauffeur-driven limousine and ride back to their mansions.

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   The Silent Conspiracy°      (It's Neither Silent Nor A Conspiracy.)  

   Exposing the Lie.°   

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   The Guidebook for Con Artists and Manipulators°

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A New Vision for Your Life°     

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The N.V.P.  Team's Invitation:     

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Do you feel that you are one of:   The Kicked-out  --  The Left-out --   The Walked-out  --  The Walked on -- or The Disenfranchised?   Have you been successful at your career, but still feel something still missing in your life?   Are you a person who could be thought of as "one of  the less fortunate of our brothers and sisters?"   Do you have a dream or a vision for yourself that you've never manifested?

If any of these descriptions fit you, you are invited to join with us in re-building a structure that honors: 1) the latest scientific evidence about the nature of reality and human life,  2)  the commonly accepted theories about life offered over the centuries by the world's most renowned philosophers, and 3)  the previously ignored teachings of Jesus and the Christian Bible.  (i.e.  Christianity without the dogma and the fairytales.)

The Reasonables Project will show you how, without asking permission from anybody and from the ground up, the project's participants are re-creating their own lives and filling their lives with joy, abundance, cooperation, love, and freedom.   You are invited into the project, and when you accept this invitation, The N.V.P. Team members will show you and assist you in doing the same for yourself.    (Please note that the N.V.P. Team does not have any magic bullets or instant cures, and the team won't play the game of life for you.) 

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You're invited to join the N.V.P. Team 
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